Get Over "I Got It" - How to Stop Playing Superwoman, Get Support, & Remember that Having it All Doesn't Mean Doing it all Alone with Elayne Fluker

Asking for help can be hard. Really hard. There’re a lot of reasons for this. A couple off the top of my head, maybe we feel weak, or that we really shouldn’t need help because we’re not that out of control. The thing is… many of us don’t ask for help until we’re at the breaking point.
Asking for help can be hard. 😩 
Really hard. 🤦🏻‍♀️
There’re a lot of reasons for this.  A couple off the top of my head,  maybe we feel weak, or that we really shouldn’t need help because we’re not that out of control.  The thing is… many of us don’t ask for help until we’re at the breaking point. 

As brick and mortar business owners, I do not want that for any of us.  Yet when I coach clients - that’s where many of them are.  They are overwhelmed, stressed out and feel like they are sucking at everything because they are always exhausted. 

That is why our guest is so needed and appreciated. 💗

Meet Elayne Fluker.  Author of  Get Over "I Got It" - How to Stop Playing Superwoman, Get Support, & Remember that Having it All Doesn't Mean Doing it all Alone. 

In this episode we share vulnerable stories of realizing why we don’t ask for help and what that does to our mindset.  Elayne also gives us a very tangible way for us to let go of our cape and do the hard work. 

You can catch Elayne on her amazing podcast Support is Sexy.  Tune in to hear how she’s empowering women to get over it and ask for help. 

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In 2008, three weeks postpartum, Melissa Rose started her business in her basement.  She taught the art of dance to students of all ages while her babies were right along with her in the pack and play.  With her passion, resilience, and nose down she created a business that has become "The Highlight of Your Week" for her tribe, her team and her community.  

In 2015 her life shattered when her husband of 15 years walked in the door and asked for divorce.  They had 5 young children at the time ages 11 down to 2yrs. old.  Little did she know at the time, that that one decision would create the foundation to build the life of her dreams.  Fast forward five years later, Melissa upgraded to a second location, a team of 14, and launched an online membership called Dance on Demand. 

Along with running a successful brick and mortar business, Melissa is also a visibility coach for brick and mortar businesses, Melissa guides other boss ladies to a flourishing brick and mortar business that provides for their own tribe - creating a legacy for themselves, their family and their community.  She has a podcast, “Brick and Mortar Visibility” that she dedicates to sharing tips, tools and strategies she’s learned in her brick and mortar business to help others in theirs.

Melissa is a super mama of five kiddos, enjoys long hikes or playing in her garden.  At the end of the day you can find her snuggling with a self development book with an ice cold beer.

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